If they have a book about them, they have a story in it;
If they have their story in it, their problems are surely mentioned in it;
If someone’s problems are in a book, and yours isn’t - chances are that theirs is relatively big;
and exactly that - seeing a relatively huge problem – makes yours seem insignificant.
you say: “It’s all just this?! “
1. Pick 2. Yourself, 3. up. Believe in yourself, it's an option for others; But, a necessity for you.
Take any of these 2 off and everything falls apart.
Left to myself, I complicate seemingly simple things.
I like it that way, it gives a better intellectual kick;
And, it’s not profitable, wise nor healthy.
No stuffed animals,
No cognitive dissonance,
If otherwise, go ahead, knock yourselves out; who cares? :)